We're back but only for a few days

One of the pools at sunset

Steve, Alan, Dean and Will...all buddies who were in Iraq together

The lobby of the hotel and the formal swimming pool

Husband and I

We got back on Sunday from the wedding in Orlando and had a blast. It was so nice to only have to go 45 minutes away from home versus 15 hours that everyone else had to drive. They only had a total of 20 people there including the wedding party so it was great to be able to hang out and get to know them. I was a little worried that it was going to be uncomfortable not knowing a single soul except Alan but it was good. Of course, you can't get that many chicks together and not have drama. From my point of view, I think that if the bride's parents paid for EVERYONE'S room to the cost of $195 a night you could at least make an effort to hang out and try to get to know her. She hadn't met any of us either but was willing to allow us to come while saying no to some of her family members. So, don't be bitchy and ignore everyone except the one person you know. I can't stand cattiness and thinking you are above someone else. And, she was the most down to earth, sweetest person! Needless to say, there are some people I would love to see again and others I will be fine to do without. Just a little recap and venting.
Still don't have my son or Brutus. They should be bringing him back this weekend. I miss my baby sooooo much. Who knew I would miss stinky, pooey diapers but I do:)

At the OMNI

Spending WAY too much money. Alan got mad that I raided the mini-bar last night for a 4 dollar bottle of Evian and M&Ms...will probably run up to Publix...ain't no pancakes and an omelet worth 50 bucks. But, we are having fun and the place is gorgeous...will post some pics when I get back.

Tomorrow is the big day

All I can do is pray. My parents go for mediation tomorrow and everything should be settled and finalized. I don't think that I have fully comprehended the divorce and I don't know that I ever will. My dad said that God will give us answers when it is his time but it's really hard. I know it is true and pray for the both of them and for our family. Hopefully, we can rebuild and be okay...at some point.
My sister checked herself into a facility and I am so thankful and proud of her. Again, all I can do is pray that she will get the help she needs and realize the wonderful, giving person she is at heart. All in all, these past 6 months or so have been really hard, but I need to be more focused on my own family and realize my husband and Reis need me as well. I pray the coming months bring us all happiness and not so much sadness and grief. I apologize for the not so happy post, but I have a lot going on in the little brain of mine and sometimes it feels good to get it all out.

All by myself

It feels weird to be in the house all by my lonesome. Alan's brother, Erik, took Reis and Brutus back with him to my mother in law's for the next week. We have a wedding this weekend and one next weekend also...both out of town. I got teary-eyed yesterday when Reis left, but I know he's having a blast. I'm kinda wandering around trying to figure out what to do with no one to tend to or a dog to walk. It's nice though, Alan and I will get to hang out and spend time together. I'm excited about the resort this weekend. I will probably float around on the lazy river for the next 4 days and not worry about a thing. Ahh, it will be nice. I know Alan is excited to see his Army dudes that he hasn't seen in years. I told him just not to forget his wife is there. Well, I have cleaned the entire house and washed clothes so this momma is headed down to the pool to relax.

Live life to the fullest

Guess since the new season of Oprah started, all of us stay at home moms will be blogging about her topics. I just thought it was a mighty nice coincidence and I will tell my husband this also or he will read this for himself. Today, Dr. Oz was talking about living life to the fullest and not putting things off so he took his family to Discovery Cove. Alan and I were just talking about this earlier this morning. I have been begging him to take me but it's pricey. For those who have no idea what I am talking about, Discovery Cove is in Orlando and you can swim with dolphins, scuba with fish(and sharks that are in a separate tank but you can see them), and other different water activities. So husband, let's live life to the fullest and swim with dolphins for my birthday:)

Mrs. Sofa got me on a rant

Let me preface this by saying that I do have a wonderful husband that provides for us, takes care of all our needs, and doesn't bitch(too much) when I say I "need" a pedicure. But, why is it that once you get married, they forget how to do ANYTHING for themselves. Funny how all knowledge of how to wash clothes, load a dish in the dishwasher, make a sandwich or clean goes completely out the window. Do we become house slaves when we decide to get married and stay home with our children? He does help but after I tell him I need this or that done. Sometimes I feel like a maid and nanny...I'm done ranting. Honey I love you because I know you will read this:)

Auntie Sarah, I need a haircut

He has already had his hair cut twice and I don't want anyone to touch it but Sarah. Hopefully, Memaw can get him in when she keeps him in 2 weeks. Just a little heads up Auntie Sarah:)

I'm still here

I think going away made me more tired than being at home. It's something about not being in his environment, I guess, but Reis was up this weekend at 6:30 which is not normal. So, I am trying to recover. Alan is in DC on business and I had to take him to the airport this morning at 5 so I am pooped. I asked him today if he ever thought he would be in DC again on business and as a "civilian." It's kind of ironic, but I knew he would do great in the "real world." Gainesville and the game were fun...hot, but fun. I knew Seminole fans could party and of course, Gators can too. Two things I saw this weekend that were pretty genius ideas. One, 2 chicks riding down the road on coolers that were motorized. I never knew they had those. I thought they were rigged somehow but they weren't. Now, one had on wedges and a dress which was pretty idiotic. Number two was a guy at a bar that we went to cool down before the game had a cast on his arm and a cup holder attached. Oh, to be in college again. Actually, I felt kind of old and like I had a sign on my forehead that said...I have a baby. Nothing like being grinded on when you are just there to hang out, have a drink, and try and salvage your face that is running down your neck. Gatorville was fun, but I still love my Noles. They kicked butt this weekend. Let's just hope it continues.

Off to G-ville tomorrow for a little R&R

I think the fall and football season are my favorite times of the year. Maybe it's the South, we breed football fans. Mary Beth and I are headed to the Gator game while the 2 grandmas watch Reis. Let's just hope they put him down before they get into the wine:) They've been known to get a little wacky. I think I have Blogger's block or something because I sit down and seem like I have nothing to talk about. Maybe this weekend I will come back with many stories to tell. Until then, I shall continue packing:)

Labor Day

I had my in-laws visit for Labor Day and this was actually Reis' first trip to the beach. Of course, we were there for maybe 30 minutes and the sky fell out and it started pouring...like everyday in Florida. We had a good time, it was a little cramped but not too bad. Here are a couple pics. Memaw should take up a second career as a photographer. She always gets the best pictures.